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The Train December 1987


Rain_against_train_window__by_Alex_Hay

I sit on the train looking out the big windows at the landscape slipping past me
: tall evergreen trees interspersed with the lacework of leafless trees thrusting their branches against the grey sky, all anchored in a natural forest undergrowth.  Raindrops splashing and runnng  down in small riveluts, causing the landscape to blur in front of my eyes…. or is it tears in my eyes?  Maybe both..

I’m returning to Portland, OR, from Bellingham, WA, close to the Canadian border  where my parents live .  They’re in their late 80’s, and becoming fragile.  I did some food prep for them and put it in the freezer; things they enjoy.  It’s strange to be at their comfy trailer home and me do the cooking.  All my life, my mom’s cooking is a highlight in our home. . . and now the roles are reversed.
I leave Bellingham early this morn. a train change in  Seatlle WA, arriving in Portland OR. around dusk. It’s early afternoon: I won’t know that without my watch, the sky is dark with clouds.  We just went through an area that I know well, where my former husband was raised.  So many wonderful, crazy memories of two kids who fall in love and planning their marriage. Driving in a blizzard near Tacoma WA., going to a huge state fair in Puyallup WA, , canoing on Greenlake (near the University) in Seattle, a stolen kiss riding in the rumble seat of a friend’s car… (rumble seat: that may be another word you will need to look up.  Believe me, it’s unforgettable!)
MEMORIES! MEMORIES! flowing though my brain on my mind’s screen.
My Lord and Father God.  What happened over the years to change all of that?  What did we do wrong?  What did I do wrong?
Too many questions with no answers…Will I ever have any answers?
I continue to look out the window.  I should be seeing palm trees, clear blue sky, rolling hills at times with sharp peaks… and why am I hearing English instead of Portuguese?
I pull my warm sweater more tightly around me (I need to go to a thrift store and look for more warm sweaters.) and reach for my Amplified Bible.  I haven’t yet read today’s Proverbs. Let me see: today is December 3, 1987.  So it’s Proverbs 3.  I open my Bible and read.
 
Proverbs 3 Amplified Bible (AMP)
1 My son, forget not my law or teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments;
For length of days and years of a life [worth living] and tranquility [inward and outward and continuing through old age till death], these shall
shall they add unto you..
Let not mercy and kindness [shutting out all hatred and selfishness] and truth [shutting out all deliberate hypocrisy or falsehood] forsake you; bind them about your neck, write them upon the tablet of your heart.
So shall you find favor, good understanding, and high esteem in the sight [or judgment] of God and man.

Lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind and do not rely on your own insight or understanding.
In all your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him, and He will direct and make straight and plain your paths.

Be not wise in your own eyes; reverently fear and worship the Lord and turn [entirely] away from evil.
It shall be health to your nerves and sinews, and marrow and moistening to your bones.

I stopped reading.  Wow.  I know I’ve read this before, many times, but this afternoon, it is exactly what I need.
I let my body relax and more memories of these past months come as a flood when I open the dam restraining them.
I look out the window,without seeing the trees and rain. 
Scenes of slowly packing and closing the house in Belo Horizonte and the day I give the keys to the realtor.  Him telling me how sorry he is for all that is happening, also sharing with me other things he knows of that my husband had done.
Getting on the plane; flying to São Paulo where my younger son is serving as an interpreter for a Jimmy Swaggert Gospel Campaign: going to the soccer stadium filled with 20,000 or more Brazilians. Thankfulness to see my son there on stage, translating. The absolute joy as hundreds stream from the surrounding stands to come to the Lord!  Then flying to Rio de Janeiro for the second campaign: experiencing the same awe of what God is doing!  My kids attempting to convince me I should stay in Brazil until after their baby is born.
The DIFFICULT flight from Rio de Janeiro to Portland, Oregon. Looking out the window at the ground miles below; wondering if I would ever get to “come home” again.
Arriving from Brazil, stepping off the plane in Portland, Oregon,  wondering what is reality?  The only reality I have is I know I can trust is God’s promises and what He is teaching me about forgiveness, thankfulness and blessing my enemies.  I still have much to learn!
 
My teenage daughter and I are in a small two bedroom apartment, our mattresses on the floor. We are on the second floor of an older building with the laundry in the basement. (Good exercise!)   We have a small kitchen, living/dining room with a gas fireplace, inexpensive carpeting, and two bathrooms. (Important!)  

We are near the Columbia River, so the frigid wind from eastern Oregon comes whistling down the gorge.  Many nights I lay awake,  warmly snuggling under a pile of blankets, listening to the whining of the wind around the building as it battered against the windows, sometimes managing to come in through an ill-fitting casing.  I lay there, warm, thanking God for His protection, my daughter and I are safe and there is peace in our little apartment.  No fighting. No drama. Peace.
 
                              
At this time, I have no idea how we will make it financially, but my mind is too “washed out” to think straight or try to find work. I don’t think I even have skills to find work.  My pastor did a psychological test on me: he was shocked when he saw my score on self esteem – zero!
 
My Father knows exactly where we are, and what we need, and He provides for us.  In a “strange land,” the apartment begins to feel like home. We shop garage sales and thrift stores: I’m amazed at what we find and how it all fits together.  I am proud of my daughter.  This is also being tough on her!
 
Proverbs 3, Psalms 23, Psalms 91, Psalms 139… They all take on new depth and meaning, and I thank God.
I thank Him . . . and wait to be able to walk through the dark tunnel I’m now in. I hope it won’t be long before my mind and emotions are out of this dark tunnel,  and out – once again – into the light and warmth of day.
 
I awaken out of my thoughts as the train begins to slow down, the conductor coming through the car calling out, “Portland! Portland”.
I gather up my Bible and the papers I’ve been writing on,  hurriedly put them into my carry- on bag, run my hand through my hair, and prepare to step off the train, wondering who will be  there to meet me.  
                                                    – Voni
 
 

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4 Replies

  1. Your gift for writing and story telling is amazing. Your open honesty, inspiring. Sometimes it’s easier to keep the pain inside. Thank you for drawing back the curtain in order to bring comfort and inspiration to others who are hurting.

  2. Voni

    Brenda, thank you for your words! You blessed me. The following verses are the reason I’m writing this out now. I’ve learned His faithfulness. There will always be sorrow in my heart; but the heartrending anguish is healed. You, too, will share more. But allow yourself time for healing. You are a lovely, sensitive, caring person.
    He has used you, is using you, and will use you more.

    God Offers Comfort to All 2 Cor. 1
    3 All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. 4 He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. 5 For the more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ. 6 Even when we are weighed down with troubles, it is for your comfort and salvation! For when we ourselves are comforted, we will certainly comfort you. Then you can patiently endure the same things we suffer. 7 We are confident that as you share in our sufferings, you will also share in the comfort God gives us.

    8 We think you ought to know, dear brothers and sisters,[b] about the trouble we went through in the province of Asia. We were crushed and overwhelmed beyond our ability to endure, and we thought we would never live through it. . 9 In fact, we expected to die. But as a result, we stopped relying on ourselves and learned to rely only on God, who raises the dead.

    and I’m sending some big Brazilian hugs to you!
    Voni

  3. I remember you telling me parts of this story but I loved reading it and experiencing it in a different way. Your storytelling is effective and takes me right in there with you. Nice work! I love Psalm 3 too

  4. Voni

    Ah Astrid..thank you! We both have much in our hearts to share! Am looking forward to seeing you. Lots of “catch-up” to do.
    Sending Brazilian hugs – and want some German ones. 🙂

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